This will be my first Christmas away from the family. It doesn’t seem like much of a mile marker
but we’re a tight-knit clan and I’m not sure I’ve ever missed Christmas with
Grandma and the gang in my 29 years on this Earth.
When Samantha and I decided on the very dramatic honeymove
it seemed lovely symbolism of starting our lives together; not just our own
branch but our very our own sapling of a family tree. Honestly this still holds true and I wouldn’t
change it for the world but there are some pangs as a cost. Rather than watching younger family open
toys, older family open oddities and whiskey, eating too much and falling
asleep on my grandmother’s couch I will be visiting with friends in
Oregon. I’m sure it will be a lovely
affair, and I’ve said this in many a call and card, but know we miss you all.
On the plus side this trip will take us through the Cascade
Mountains! I will later entertain you
with actual photos of the trip but for now I’ll just post a map.
I’m looking forward to driving through Shasta National
Forrest. I don’t know that they have the
redwoods there but here’s hopin! There
will be two other top-secret destinations to be shared at a later time so look
forward to that. Know that they sound
awesome in theory.
But back to nostalgia!
As this is my first away I thought it would be a fantastic time to share
my favorite Christmas memories. Mostly I
have a running memory of putting up my grandmother’s tree and decorating the
basement for the Christmas party. If you
asked me now I’d tell you I certainly did this every year for a decade on end
but it’s more likely it was a 3-5 year stint.
Still though, I really took ownership a few times there and had a blast
listening to carols and laying the train track around a tiny Christmas
town.
As to a specific memory I’d have to say the year I needed
dental work of some kind done. I was
young and I was in terrible pain and laid up at Grandma’s house. I don’t remember what had happened (I swear I
was a regular brusher!) but it was awful.
I remember feeling like I’d be in trouble for poor hygiene but really my
parents were more concerned with my comfort.
They brought me an early gift of a Flintstone’s NES game to take my mind
from the pain and I believe a dentist came in on Christmas Eve or Christmas Eve’s
eve from vacation to care for me. I loved
that game and while every kid loves attention I remember feeling cared for more
than fawned over. Warm fuzzies abound.
I’m gonna try something a little different and see if we can’t
get this a little more interactive. So
you go ahead and share below: What are
your favorite Christmas memories? Or what
will you be doing this year? What do you
wish you’d be doing instead?
I look forward to hearing from everyone and if I don’t get
another chance to say it, “Have a holly jolly Christmas/Holiday season!”


Hi, Tom. I enjoyed your post. Thank you. Terri and I really loved and laughed with your holiday letter; again thank you. We miss you much and are still trying to work out a trip to CA in mid-March.
ReplyDeleteWe'll be doing our traditional holiday retreat, starting after work today (12/21) through 1/1/13: No phones, email, internet, mail, visitors or leaving our home, Sugati ("happy destination") with the exception of some visiting with Josh and Maggie. Instead, lots of sleeping in, meditation, caring for ourselves and one another, conversation and relaxation. Our other tradition is to make a meal for Josh and Maggie focusing on a different culture or part of the world. Last year we did "OccuPie" (an assortment of savory and sweet pies accompanied by classic and modern protest music), and prior to that Tibetan. This year, traditional Swiss fare.
Know that you and Samantha have our love and affection, Tom. Talk to you soon.